Perhaps dear gents, the most desired of Fem Doms have become weary and wary of submissives that offer up their will - but Serve it in half measures. Lovely readers allow me to tell you about myself and you may begin to fathom why it seems lately- The Serious FemDom is a scarce commodity.

After 12 years living and loving in this Lifestyle, I have seen the social dynamics of BDSM change, almost at the same lightning speed of the Internet evolution. When I began my journey, to who I am today, it was as well Trained submissive who understood the meaning of Service to a Superior.  It was that Training- by an Old School Master, that gave me structure and a solid foundation of common Rules.  Life- skills and manners begun with my Mother’s care grew in depth, with my Service Training.

Oh! The delicious details! With each new task, it was a chance to prove myself worthy of my Top’s attention. From the very start, I was heady from the vast possibilities and I wallowed in each new experience. Crestfallen when I failed, but filled with joyful pride when a Lesson was declared well done, I felt safe, secure and cherished. Who else but the bottom knows the comfort that can be found at the feet of one you Adore?

As my needs in life changed, it was clear I had gained all I could from my Training as a sexual submissive. It was then I was gently released and given the freedom to Rise To The Top. Taking those Lessons of the past exciting year, I was prepared share my skills and knowledge with others who wished to Serve a Serious Female Dom.  Knowing the importance of my position, I strived to use my methods with the same stern and loving guidance I was fortunate enough to receive.

With my list of Hard Limits and requirements for happiness in hand, I set off in search of a sub to call my Own. I used the chat rooms as a tool in my Mission and met many lovely young men on my hunt. Each was a wonderful experience and I felt Honored when they drove hours for a first meeting- all giddy, willing and so eager to Serve.

Sigh! Those were the days, when a person brought small tributes - flowers, candles, a handwritten poem - each one treasured and most appreciated.  Tributes from the heart will be cherished and remembered by most any Women, and a Fem Dom is no exception. Would you dear gents be surprised to see one of those sweet gifts, a sailor’s white cap, perched on my bookcase? It is a memory more than decade old and tender remembrance of one who Served, with hope.

It always seemed each delightful gent was missing that essential component for a successful partnership, the chemistry, and that special click. It was all fun play and an adventure until I met an intelligent, cheeky and funny man named roy. What a joy to have a sensual and sexy bottom, so willing with a real drive to meet the challenge of Service to a Lifestyle Mistress. As they say, talk is cheap, but roy proved his devotion by road tripping across 4 states to kneel at my feet.

So dear readers the next time you are fussing about not being able to find The One, ask yourself…

• Did She ask you to e-mail every Tuesday? But you were neglectful and “forgot”.
• Has The Lady afforded you the attention to impress Her with your skills, talents and qualities?  While sadly, your contribution was a running list of sexual kinks and dreamy fantasy.
• Do you complain that there are no REAL Fem Doms to be found?  Yet you remain hidden behind the monitor, never attending a local munch, even years after discovering your true nature.
• Are you a Do Me boy- focused only on your needs?

Madame Knows…
It is the little things, which will make you more attractive to the Superior Women, you long to Serve & Adore.