There are so many new BDSM sites on the WWW these days; it’s sometimes hard to choose one that fits all your lil kinks. There’s one site that has been online since 1994 and is chock-full of great pics, stories, forums, shopping and clear information, that’s The Fetish Club. With daily, weekly and monthly updates, The Fetish Club is the best value in a life-style website.
What’s more impressive is their collection of resources for every one from Old School to NOob. One of my favorite articles for beginners is … What’s a Safeword?
how to use one…
One of the thrills of bdsm is that it can stretch your limitations. If you enjoy this sort of play, you can naturally find yourself trying more and more new things, accepting greater and greater levels of sensation, doing and feeling more than you’ve ever done or felt before. But the process is slow and gradual, and people are not telepathic.
It may be that you are the bottom in a whipping scene, and your Top is whipping you, and suddenly it doesn’t feel good anymore!! And you want them to stop!!! That is what a safeword is: a word that means “This isn’t working! This scene is going wrong somehow! Please stop!”
A safeword needs to be taken seriously. Sometimes you may be playing with a Top you don’t know that well, and if they do something to you you don’t want, it’s important that you have a way to let them know, immediately. Especially if you’re tied up or otherwise made helpless.
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